Krishna Guruji’s marriage advice emphasizes that mutual understanding in marriage matters far more than horoscope charts. Couples seeking successful marriage tips should look beyond traditional rituals and focus on real-life marriage compatibility.
Is Horoscope Matching a Must for a Successful Marriage?
In Indian society, the moment marriage is discussed, the first question often is — “Did the horoscopes match?”
But Krishna Guruji asks us a deeper question:
“Is horoscope matching truly a guarantee for a successful marriage? Or is mutual understanding the real key to a lasting relationship?”
Why Was Horoscope Matching Done Traditionally?
In earlier times, people traveled from one village to another carrying horoscopes of the boy and girl whose marriage was under discussion. Matches were finalized purely based on planetary positions.
Back then, the bride and groom often didn’t even see each other until their wedding day. Horoscopes was the only tool people had to check compatibility, especially when families had no idea about each other’s background.
The Reality in Kaliyug
Today, the world has changed completely. Families look at practical things first:
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What does the boy do for a living?
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How much does he earn?
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How many siblings does he have?
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Does he live with a joint family or independently?
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Is the girl’s family nearby?
95% of families finalize matches based on these real-life factors before even going to an astrologer.
Krishna Guruji says:
“Horoscopes cannot replace human connection. If a boy and girl like each other, have similar values, and genuinely understand one another, that’s the real foundation for a happy marriage.”
Why Divorce Rates Are Rising
Krishna Guruji points out modern reasons for marital problems, unrelated to horoscopes:
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Some women today prefer not to change their surname after marriage.
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Parents of brides often interfere in the couple’s married life.
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In-laws and new family dynamics create tension if mutual respect is missing.
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Many couples live like railway tracks — close together physically but emotionally distant.
He says:
“Marriage means accepting each other’s strengths, weaknesses, and differences. No horoscope can guarantee this understanding.”
Gyan Chand’s Story: A Lesson in Understanding
There was a man named Gyan Chand who lived very happily with his wife. People often wondered:
“How come Gyan Chand and his wife never fight?”
One day, some neighbours tried to create trouble. They came to his house in the afternoon and said:
“Hey Gyan Chand, ask your wife to light a lantern and bring it here.”
They thought his wife would say:
“Why light a lantern during the day?”
Instead, Gyan Chand’s wife quietly lit the lantern and brought it over. Everyone was shocked.
Then Gyan Chand said:
“Guests have come. Bring something sweet.”
His wife brought savoury snacks instead. Gyan Chand offered it to the guests without complaint.
Curious, the neighbours finally asked:
“What’s your secret to marital harmony?”
Gyan Chand replied:
“Whatever I ask my wife to do, she does it without questioning. And if she does something different, I accept it without blaming her. When I asked for a lantern in daylight, she brought it without asking why. When I asked for sweets and she brought savouries, I understood that perhaps the sweets were finished. This mutual understanding is enough to keep any relationship strong.”
Krishna Guruji’s Advice for a Successful Marriage
Krishna Guruji shares these key principles:
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Avoid blame games. After marriage, Spouse become “two bodies, one soul.”
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Never bring competition into marriage.
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Give equal respect to both families.
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If the boy and girl like each other, and their thinking aligns, don’t let mismatched horoscopes become an obstacle. Marriage is about mutual understanding, patience, and accepting each other’s differences.
Couples’ Day: Krishna Guruji’s Unique Celebration
Every Valentine’s Day, Krishna Guruji celebrates Couples’ Day to honour couples who have been together for decades. He wants today’s youth to learn that:
“The couples who have stayed together for years didn’t always have perfect lives. They faced joys and sorrows but kept their marriage as a priority.”
Through Couples’ Day, Krishna Guruji has helped reduce rising divorce rates in Kaliyug.
So, Is Horoscope Matching Must for Successful Marriage?
Krishna Guruji says:
“Horoscope matching can be one reference, but it should never override mutual understanding and love. A happy marriage is built on respect, acceptance, and genuine connection — not just planetary positions.”
Watch Krishna Guruji’s YouTube Short
Want a quick glimpse of this message? Watch Krishna Guruji’s powerful short video here:
👉 Watch Krishna Guruji’s YouTube Short (0:51 sec)
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