In today’s world, rising divorce rates are alarming.
When relationships break within a few years, understanding the key to a successful marriage becomes essential.
Is marriage just a union of two individuals or a sacred bonding of two families?
Is it fair to reject a relationship just because horoscopes don’t match, even when hearts and minds do?
1. Horoscope Matching – Tradition or Fear?
Krishna Guruji says:
“Nowhere in the major scriptures does it say that if the horoscopes don’t match, marriage must not happen.”
In ancient times, horoscope matching was a tool for long-distance matchmaking when partners never met before marriage. But today, when couples know and understand each other, rejecting based on Kundali alone is superstition.
2. Real Reasons Behind Modern-Day Divorces
Competition instead of Complementing
Resistance to changing surnames – ‘Why should I bend?’
Parents interfering in the married daughter’s decisions
Living under one roof, yet with distant hearts and minds
3. The Wisdom of Gyan Chand – A Lesson in Acceptance
Everyone admired Gyan Chand’s peaceful marriage. One day, neighbors tried to trigger a fight.
They asked his wife to bring a lantern at noon. Without questioning, she brought it.
Then they asked for sweets – she brought salty snacks instead. Gyan Chand smiled and said:
“She fulfilled my request without questioning – that’s her faith. And I accepted what she brought without complaint – that’s my understanding.”
This is the foundation of a lasting marriage – mutual trust, surrender, and silence where ego usually screams.
4. Krishna Guruji’s 5 Sutras for a Successful Married Life
5. Think ‘ours’, not ‘yours and mine’ – Live in the spirit of Ardhanarishwar (one soul, two forms).
6. Don’t bring competition into marriage – be each other’s strength, not rival.
7. Respect both families equally – Parents on both sides deserve the same love.
8. Don’t reject a bond based on horoscopes alone – Match hearts, not just planets.
9. Accept each other’s flaws – Completion comes not from perfection, but from embracing imperfections.
10. Couples’ Day – A Divine Alternative to Valentine’s Day
Every year on February 14th, Krishna Guruji celebrates Couples’ Day.
He honors elderly couples who’ve stayed together through decades of ups and downs.
Guruji says:
“Giving roses is easy. But living a life of love, sacrifice, and patience – that’s true commitment.”
Couples’ Day inspires the youth to believe in lasting relationships and avoid quick exits.
